Do you ask your wife her opinion on whether u will reenlist/not?

i just want to know if you're not a lifer and not stuck on an indefinite contract+ have done your time in iraq already, would u consider reenlisting if you have a family? how much does your wifes opinion count in the decision? @one point before the deployment I was supportive of the idea + chance @ a better duty station, but now i'm not b.c. 15 mos. is 2 long for me to deal w/ AGAIN.